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In a world full of women emulating Cardi B, let us (women of God) walk in our true identities and position ourselves to impact generations right from our home!
“He who finds a wife obtains favor from the Lord”. -Proverbs 18:22
via The Godly Woman Podcast — Episode 001
By Gods’ design the wife attracts favor into the home.
Women all over the world are trying to accomplish by false burdens that God created through our role in the home.
We must position ourselves back into the place where God called us to be.
What You’ll Learn!
- How God Sees YOUR Role in the Home
- What Societal Pressure Has Done to The Role of The Wife
- The Purpose Behind The Wives Role (and The Frustrations)
- Burden vs Favor Pertaining Your Role as a Wife
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Thank you Melanie For your sharing and the value of a woman in the eyes of God. This is so important in the era we are living in. Thank you for every woman needs to hear this. God Bless.
Amen great insight. I felt like that 2 years ago but I feel so better because I love being home with my children watching them grow and nurturing them.
Yes! That us what we were made for! Every day isn’t easy, but it’s the best place to be overall. I can’t wait to do the same for my kids!
I’m glad you enjoyed it!
What a beutiful message Melanie. I’m also a housewife . Women can compare to others. But I love the God created unique. Thank you for sharing with us. You are so beautiful inside and out.
Thank you for listening!
Thank you for listening!
God Bless you, Sis. Melanie thank you for sharing “The Role of a Godly Women in the home. Every word, and story you talked about is so true. It truly takes time and especially patience to become the Wife and the Mother God has called us to be. When mentoring and talking with a lot of young Ladies during these trying, and very challenging times, even in my past walk with God. Are you ready to become the bride of Christ Jesus first. That means you should be willing and always kneeling and praying before God on behalf of your Husband, children, the school, the bus drivers, your Husband job, your self, your Mother in law etc. Just everything and everybody that surrounds you your daily life, your Husband, and children. It’s very important and it’s very critical to always be on watch. As the wife you sorta become the Seer of the family. While learning to become the Wife/Bride and the Mother God has called you to be we must be willing to submit to God first. That’s one of the main and only questions I ask before entering in conversation over Marriage. How can you submit to a Husband or your Husband, when you can’t even submit to God first. I’ve learned that it all starts with God first. Than He will sort out and put the rest in place. And this comes by receiving the wisdom of God. May Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ forever bless your Ministry, Marriage, and Family. Thanks you for the invite.
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Flimming B.
Yes! Thank you for watching!
When I was at home I was able to keep an eye on my kids. I had my business at home I was able to keep an eye on my kids. When I started working outside of my home my son started getting in trouble and was murdered two years after that. So God wanted me to share being a house mom isnt bad. I was so eager to go out and use my degree. I made more money being an entrepreneur.
Wow! I’m so sorry to hear that! I know that is one of the hardest if not hardest things someone could go through. I pray for God’s grace and peace for you and your family.
Amazn , I would have loved to be a mother and wife full time honestly!!! Iwas married and divorced very young. I was forced to work and home, however I know I could have much more enjoyed being home w my children I’ll be honest I was drained 50-75% of time at home, later I married and my God given husband offered me that opportunity
However I really wrestled w fear after 1st divorce.i see u blessed !!! My prayer life was going to work and home from work it was not by choice!!!! I believed my children deserved more they also had to be independent they wanted to talk and I tried I was literally exhausted mentally physical
Emotionally, I’m thankful they came out as good as they did!!!!as adults they told me I seemed either angry or stressed all time they see me much different as grand mom!!! I knew it was more I always wanted to impart!!!! Bless you and Rodrigo for being on same page concerning this choice
I think about my 2 young kids being at bus stop w/o me they wound have to beep me when they were in class that hurt!! I could not assure their safety work 37yrs as nurse!! I was able to provide and out of my. Own fears of not being provided for upon first divorce feared however I never admitted it for years
My husband of 37yrs told me I didn’t trust him!!! I did work thru the healing however!! Never got to that point!!!! To let work go even to part time!!! Home w my kids first 10yrs of their life would have been a treat!!!!!
Thank you for sharing!
Bless you both!! Rodrigo is blessed to understand your gift as wife and if you choose MOM, I’ll be honest I worked very laborious as a nurse!!!
I was very good to my patients however I lived to be home however I slept prepared for return to work on off days!!had very little
Energy left except for recovery !!!! I admire ur choices and most of a ur both on same page , my husband of 32yrs was an excellent father and husband however I did not allow myself to be even part time at home !!!
Thank you for sharing!
God bless you n your household/ it’s a blessing to a house wife at home doesn’t matter what the wild says
Yes and thank you for listening!
This is a very good podcast. Ladies will be empowered to know that God has gifted us all that we may walk in the fullness of His Glory in the earth realm. Being a housewife or homemaker is actually an honor in my eyes. This opportunity gives you the blessing of focusing on family as well as not allowing the competing priorities of having a job outside the home affect or distract you. I say job outside the home because caring for your family is an honor that requires work and focus and is NOT always easy. May God continue to bless this ministry, not only that it is a blessing to others, but that you and your family will be blessed in it’s making.
Blessings,
Rena Comer
http://www.caribbeancrusadeforchrist.com
Thank you so much! Yes, the job in the home is not easy, but it is the most important!
Well said! This actually reminded me of how I use to feel some type of way when I was a stay at home wife.
Thank you for sharing this.
Blessings
Thank you for listening!
I thank God for you Melanie! God bless you , Rodrigo and you expanding family to come.
This message is timely and an answered prayer. Continue to be bold, and beautiful as you walk in the Power and authority given to you in Christ Jesus.
Your cup runneth over
Amen and once agin God bless you!
Thank you and thank you for listening! God Bless!
Behind every successful man there is a successful woman. This is beautiful
Many working women don’t have time for there home ? a home is not a home without a good woman. God bless you keep up the good work that’s who God position you to be. Love
Thank you! God Bless!
Wow women protect the home spiritual and physical
Yes!!
I think this might be the answer to my prayer. I asked the Lord to open the door for me to get a job. Now i am sitting here and i receive this…….
I would work at times and stay home my husband always wanted me to stay home, I didn’t always like it I LOOKED DOWN UPON IT. I hadn’t realized until now that i had shame. Shame of being a housewife i put a lot of pressure on myself. I have been separated for over 5yrs and God has kept me maintaining my position as a stay at home mom. I have felt a lot of things in this season fear, uncertainty but i am grateful all our needs are met and i see the benefits for my children whom i love dearly. Its a blessing seeing the two of you embrace your roles as husband and wife. GOD BLESS Thank you Melanie
Yes, oftentimes even if others aren’t directly shaming us we can shame ourselves for fear of criticism! I’m glad you are embracing your role at home! God will lead you into even more rest as you go! God Bless!
Woooow. What a great testimony Melanie. Thank you so much for sharing this with us.
We as women should embrace our identity irrespective of being a housewife or not. A housewife, as a stay at home mum is a full time job.
Should be celabrated everyday.
As a single woman, you gave me great insights that i will surely implement when i get married.
God bless you and Rodrigo.
I’m glad it blessed you!
This was awesome! Thank you for this. When I got married my husband didn’t want me to work. My friends always told me that i should work so i could my own have money. They told me he wanted to control me. They said it was a form of abuse. I never felt that way but, because they were my friends I felt some kind of way about it. God has kept me humble through it all. Today I listened to you and this gave me confirmation about how i always felt about being a house wife. Thank you for being obedient to God. Stay Blessed❤
Wow! For women who don’t have a concept about family or generations, being a stay at home wife and mom sounds crazy! But for God, it’s the most important role you can have! What has always blessed me was the story of Isaac and Rebekah. When they got married and her family was saying bye to her as she left they said, “May you become the mother of many millions! May your descendants be strong and conquer their enemies.” Being a wife and a mother is God’s number one plan for the kingdom to thrive. Family is where it starts! Physically and spiritually. Be encouraged as our role is important and our husbands are allowing us to be in our God-given role, not controlling us.
Hello,
thanks for being obedient to embarking on a subject that in this day and time has been having a lesser platform than many other subjects that are part of our Kingdom Life.
I wanted to ask if there are any plans for the future to minister along these lines for men as the God appointed leader of the family. This seems to be a deficit in the body of Christ in this area (that I’ve seen, perhaps it’s different in various ministries).
Likewise as there are a substantial number of unmarried women in the church today, are thre also some teachings planned for more senior women who have been living as such and have invested heavily in their careers and or ministry. I understand that the decision to marry should be made soberly with full awareness of the shift that needs to occur, depending on the unmarried persons lifestle.
What is your view on responsibilities being in non-traditional roles as seems to be prevelent thses days due to the skills that either person may have to a lesser or greater degree than their mate?
Relationships is something of a high interest to me personally and if my questions are outside of the bounds of what you’re addressing, please pardon me.
Thanks for all you’re doing in Kingdom building.
His Grace & Peace always,
J
It’s amazing, sometimes, the people who shame you, and look down on you, for being a homemaker. And that can present a challenge for the super-independent to stay at home. I had to learn to say that “I work”, instead of saying “I don’t have a job.” Because homemakers work! But oftentimes, things are seasonal and we have to keep that in mind. In my case, the Father sent me to matriculate.
I did my school time together with the children, and we were home together many evenings, and of course, this matriculation was preparation for His calling on my life. I didn’t get it at the time and fought for a way to squeeze work into the schedule. But each time He would have me map out my daily/weekly schedule, including my sleep time, to demonstrate the impracticality of what I wanted, what I was trying to do, to satisfy a NEED, it seemed. I still struggled. However, the first opportunity I got with a schedule change I jumped into a job and then COVID-19 happened. My family and I contracted it, it was horrible, but it was then that He got my attention. I understood. I fully got IT. STOP and FOCUS and what He wants me to see so that I’ll be ready for the changing season. Jobs have been calling, daily, but I GET IT. Enjoy the season I’m in until the family receives all they have to get from my daily presence, my daily input, and wait for the Father’s timing and instructions for the next season. He loves me and is faithful to have me walk out His divine purpose for my life in every season. Be blessed!
Yes, knowing our season is essential! Thanks for sharing!